So funny, I didn’t even realize it until I got the message in my inbox.
Totally feeling like I’m in like with my purpose, and meeting the goal of earning the feedback I want at the end of my days…..”well done my good and faithful servant.” And that the seeds that I’m sowing now are going to yield things and experiences beyond my wildest dreams and imaginings. I’m actually setting into the promise I received as a senior at BC as I was stressing about my next steps…which were at the time, unknown to me. Yet, I laid back in that bed in Voute Hall and actually heard the voice of God for the first time and then captured what I heard….
…and it’s happening!!!
Ok, now before I totally get myself off track. Let me get us to this week’s factor to focus on: Facing Fear. Now we’ve talked about fear one way or another here in the past and we’ve had some action plans from our focus on it, but what I want us to focus on here is shifting our perspective on fear. I actually want us to F.E. A. R….Face Everything And Rise.
See, as this picture depicts, when things are tough and present challenges to us, we usually face whatever it is and tend to run. Running can look as subtle as asking the question “Why me?” or literally running from whatever the cause of your fear is…becoming a transplant, ending a relationship, cutting people out of your life, not letting anyone in, not taking on anything that presents a challenge…the list could go on and on and on (side note-man, how easily a song pop’s into my head). What we have to do is shift our mindset about the things that cause us to get nervous, anxious, fearful. We have to embrace those things, people, situations, as positive challenges. Here’s an example.
Believe it or not, there as a time that I was deathly, deathly afraid of public speaking. I’m talking even afraid to raise my hand in class. My FBA friends who “knew me when…” could give you some really good examples. Then, my sophomore, I wanted to run for Student Council. Well, that required delivering a speech to my peers and Mrs. Cerasuolo, our school Vice President (miss her). Freaked out! BUT, while freaking out, I took on a volunteer role for the summer at the State House giving tours because I knew I’d have no choice but to speak to small and large groups. I was sick to my stomach every morning. It got to the point where my mother, who never lets you not finish anything you’ve started, actually told me “if you don’t want to do this, you really don’t have to.” It was horrible. But after facing that fear, by the end of the summer I had given over 100 tours and got better at speaking to large groups!!!
Notice, I didn’t say the fear went away. Even this week, I had to speak to 172 new hires at my firm and while I wasn’t afraid, I still got a few jitters…but I did it anyway. What we have to do is commit to the facing of our fears. Just face them and over time, they are no longer insurmountable. Let’s be clear, it takes time for things that make us fearful to stop making us fearful….while I’m young, high school was a long time ago and I’m really just now, comfortable speaking while also getting just a bit nervous every time. But it’s all good because at the end, I rise and that, that right there….that’s the goal. That’s what conquering fear is. It isn’t actually the immediate tearing down of fear. It’s the process of rising above it, even though it’s presence slowly diminished.
So, this week, I’m challenging you to live fabulously fierce by honoring the LFF anniversary and face everything with the confidence, the assuredness, the faith that it is inevitable that you will rise an there’s no stopping you then! For some of us, it’s been a long time coming!
By the way, it’s my birthday week (woot woot) and I never ask for much, but I would love to hear about what you’re planning to face and what you envision rising looking like for you! Let me know!